When we waste time asking on petty things

We waste time talking about petty things.. but unresolved issues about petty things will lead to frustation.. In the long run will lead to anger and depression. When I first got married that was many years ago - 9 years to be exact I thought love marriage will not invite trouble.. We went to the marriage course as this is compulsory in some states... or may be already compulsory for all states already. Little that they emphasize on the inequality of rights between a husband and wife. Perhaps JAKIM need to educate modern woman nowadays on this inequality of rights and responsibilities to create awareness with the hope of reducing the divorce rate in Malaysia.

I give you one example. Hubby ask wify " Where are you?" " Wify answered "Eating in a cafe with girlfriend" " Who else are present there?" Wify answered" "No just me and girlfriend" " "Come back early", H said. By 10.30 pm W arrived home only to get a grand lecture from H on rights and wrongs. Next Wednesday, W ask " Where are you?" Reluctantly H answered at the office. Morale of the story both species men and women (couple) don't like to be ask many questions on their whereabouts as if you don't trust them. Not that I trust mine anyway.. but hubby gets fed up complain to friends (may be girls you know) but wives just complain to girlfriends.. or maybe this should change.. maybe wives should have very close male friends (married, divorced, singles) to better understand their husbands behaviour.... and educate them on their rights.. Okay the number to call is 016-6802898- Call me Ayu.. Educate me and enlightened me.. May Allah let me understand my own situation and responsibilities. May Allah also help my other half to better understand his responsibilities..though we call it men's nature.. but not to abuse it.